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I believe they’re meaning always making sure the towel blocks the view of their small size.
Finding Out that a Male Friend is Small?
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As the one with a small dick. It didn’t change my relationship with my friend at all. He and I had been best friends for 3-4 years already. He found out I was small when I found out he was large. I was amazed how large his bulge was when he was hard. I told him he seemed extremely big compared to me and I asked if I could see it.
He showed me. He was definitely a lot bigger. I showed him mine in comparison. His flaccid cock was as large as mine hard. I ended up servicing him a few times and he never reciprocated at at. Never even touched me. We remained best friends for another 25 years. We are still friends but not as close as we were then.
the only other people that know I’m small are my first real girlfriend, my ex wife, and my wife. I’m sure my size has been mentioned to others. Especislly from my ex. But otherwise. It’s not affected any friends or relationships.
He showed me. He was definitely a lot bigger. I showed him mine in comparison. His flaccid cock was as large as mine hard. I ended up servicing him a few times and he never reciprocated at at. Never even touched me. We remained best friends for another 25 years. We are still friends but not as close as we were then.
the only other people that know I’m small are my first real girlfriend, my ex wife, and my wife. I’m sure my size has been mentioned to others. Especislly from my ex. But otherwise. It’s not affected any friends or relationships.
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It was at the same time that he (my brother in law) found out i was hung. Four of us (me, wife, her sister and him) went skinny dipping, on holiday. I ran out of the sea with almost 6 soft inches swinging. He was hung like a mouse. There was no wonder he ran straight to his towel and clothes. It shouldn't, but it gives me joy that he has a small dick - the fat, racist, asshole.
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When I began dating my now-ex wife, she'd been with a mutual friend of our several times prior, and she said he was 3 inches, possibly 3 1/2. She also said he made up for it on a multitude of levels with oral and being a generally fun lover, but even to this day, if his name comes up in a conversation/email/text, one of us will type or say our running joke: "Poor James... but he makes up for it!"
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I started going to naked yoga last year and one of my coworkers came in. Nice guy really a good friend and I will never forget seeing how tiny he was. Like I could see it maybe an inch or two but after the yoga session, he had shrunk to where I couldn't see it anymore. Its also when he realized I was hung. Didn't change anything other than now I know he's got a tiny dick.
I've been going over the posts in this thread. As a big (6'3"), muscular, hairy-chested dude who's hung like a chipmunk (almost totally buried in my pubes when soft), I'll have to admit I feel a bit paranoid reading what better-hung men and women think or have said after first seeing guys with small dicks, and how it sometimes changes their opinion and respect of them. At least I don't do the towel dance!
I've had very few comments about my size afterwards, but have to admit I myself usually "have more respect" for a friend or acquaintance after finding out he's got a much bigger dick. I've occasionally given the other guy a brief compliment. I've never felt any overt "disrespect" from guys (like "ordering me about" and stuff) but often seems a mutual, subtle, unstated recognition of the difference in size. But, again, this could just be paranoia on my part.
I've had very few comments about my size afterwards, but have to admit I myself usually "have more respect" for a friend or acquaintance after finding out he's got a much bigger dick. I've occasionally given the other guy a brief compliment. I've never felt any overt "disrespect" from guys (like "ordering me about" and stuff) but often seems a mutual, subtle, unstated recognition of the difference in size. But, again, this could just be paranoia on my part.
Well., he told me talking of dicks, and shew me at first shower we had together. Anyway I am small as well, so we compared our shapes. fun thing.
As a smaller guy, I guess I am bit paranoid too about what others think, feel or say when they find out I am small. I have a smaller build too, so maybe it's not a shock when someone finds out, but still, I hate when someone sees it or finds out and it confirms what they may already suspect.
Even if they don't say anything to me, I can't help but wonder what they are thinking in their minds, or what they may say to others (strangers or mutual friends). I have a feeling there are people that say "poor Josh" a lot when they see me or if I come up in conversation with others (reference to an earlier post).
Even if they don't say anything to me, I can't help but wonder what they are thinking in their minds, or what they may say to others (strangers or mutual friends). I have a feeling there are people that say "poor Josh" a lot when they see me or if I come up in conversation with others (reference to an earlier post).
For me it started with some friends finding out I am hung. They usually want to compare, and I’ve been bigger soft than them hard each time.
I’m not really apologizing for it but I do kind of feel bad when I go to a bathhouse and start to briefly mess around with a guy who is small. I end the encounter pretty quickly because that’s not what I’m looking for. I try not to be an asshole about it when I say thanks but no thanks. I know there is a whole lot more to a person than the size of their manhood but I’m not at a bathhouse to become best friends with someone.
I have a gym buddy who has an absolutely incredible body for a 58 year old man. Most 20 year olds would envy his muscled and cut physique. The first time that we went into the steam room together and he removed his towel after sitting down I was shocked at how small his dick was. About 2" soft and maybe 4" rock hard...and thin. After seeing his cut, perfect body for so long I was expecting this glorious, hung slab of meat. It didn't in any way affect our friendship, but it was admittedly a shock the first time I saw it. Of course, I have a pretty strong gag reflex, so his size does make it easy when giving a quick blowjob in the steam room!
it's not a important stuff, if I meet naked friends I don't stay staring at they dicks or butts, there is a shower or naked etiquette between naked people to not peek each other. (less we want for some not silly reasons.)
I'm still scratching my head and laughing with all of the comments of guys comparing dicks. This is NOT a common practice at any gym I've ever been to. A bunch of 40+something guys who get into the gym, workout, shave and shower when they are done do not spend time comparing dicks.
I'm don't want to be a jerk but is there some gene which ensures a big or small dick? Anyone know of a study? Guys who want to shame people with a small dick - do you also shame someone if they have green eyes or brown eyes? How about if they have a mole on their face? Do you shame someone if they have a surgical scar?
We cannot do a damn much about the size of our dick. Maybe, through hours of specific exercise or through surgical means, a dick size could be altered. But the vast majority of us are born a certain way and that's that.
For the record, I'm just an average guy with a 6" dick when hard. Mine is the only one my wife has ever had and she's had a lot of fun with it over 40+ years. I can tell you for a fact that if I was hung, I wouldn't get the oral attention which she showers me with regularly.
I'm don't want to be a jerk but is there some gene which ensures a big or small dick? Anyone know of a study? Guys who want to shame people with a small dick - do you also shame someone if they have green eyes or brown eyes? How about if they have a mole on their face? Do you shame someone if they have a surgical scar?
We cannot do a damn much about the size of our dick. Maybe, through hours of specific exercise or through surgical means, a dick size could be altered. But the vast majority of us are born a certain way and that's that.
For the record, I'm just an average guy with a 6" dick when hard. Mine is the only one my wife has ever had and she's had a lot of fun with it over 40+ years. I can tell you for a fact that if I was hung, I wouldn't get the oral attention which she showers me with regularly.
I've had a few straight friends over the years that I somehow or another found that had a small dick or were smaller than me at least. It never ever changed the dynamic of the relationship though as at the end of the day we were just friends... so why should me having knowledge of the size of their dick change anything. It's no different than finding out one of my girlfriends has beefy flaps.
And at that also, I would never ever make a joke or comment of them either, as I know how impactful that could end up being to them and their masculinity. Unless they were comfortable and opened up a conversation with me about it, it was never discussed!
And at that also, I would never ever make a joke or comment of them either, as I know how impactful that could end up being to them and their masculinity. Unless they were comfortable and opened up a conversation with me about it, it was never discussed!
Follow up to the above experience,
my buddy did bring it up a number of times a year for several years. When he’d ask me questions and we’d talk about our size differences and experience with girls and their reactions to each of us he would get very excited, like his heart would race and he’d get almost nervous or anxious. it was really kinda hot and sexy to talk about. He wanted to know what girls would say when they first saw me hard and how they responded to penetration. One time he said he wanted me to fuck his girlfriend but changed his mind cause he didn’t want her to think he was small.
does talking penis size excite you too? It sure does me, and my buddy too! I think almost all guys are interested in penis size differences and how they stack up
Absolutely the same. I love just talking about size differences and people’s reactions. I tend to be the smaller one but for me it’s not mainly an SPH thing, but more the hotness of comparing and appreciating something that is the same but different!
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This has happened to me a few times.
The first time was my straight friend from college. He’s seen me naked pretty often because I always strip down when I’m drunk. Then one night he was wasted and spilled beer all over himself. He was always super modest, so we were both shocked when he dropped his pants and underwear. He always told me mine was bigger than his, but I was still surprised to only see about 1.5”. We never talk about it and it really doesn’t even cross my mind when we hang out.
The second time was a gay coworker. He was a bit cocky at times so we didn’t really hit it off, but he moved in with a mutual friend, so we all ended up hanging out one night. When our friend went bed, I got up to leave and he invited me to his room. He was already hard, a little less than average length (5”), but the thinnest dick I’ve ever seen. It felt like I was holding his finger, but something about the size difference turned me on. I think this is when I started fantasizing about fucking guys with tiny dicks.
The last was a childhood friend’s older brother. We caught up after seeing each other at a local gym and decided to work out together occasionally. After our first workout we went to the showers and I took the stall across from him. The wide gap between the wall and glass doors made it hard not to see or be seen, so it was pretty obvious when he started jerking. I couldn’t see the head past his fist, but when he let go, it looked like he was packing maybe 4”. I feel a bit sorry for him because I’ve seen his younger brother naked and he’s almost twice as long.
The first time was my straight friend from college. He’s seen me naked pretty often because I always strip down when I’m drunk. Then one night he was wasted and spilled beer all over himself. He was always super modest, so we were both shocked when he dropped his pants and underwear. He always told me mine was bigger than his, but I was still surprised to only see about 1.5”. We never talk about it and it really doesn’t even cross my mind when we hang out.
The second time was a gay coworker. He was a bit cocky at times so we didn’t really hit it off, but he moved in with a mutual friend, so we all ended up hanging out one night. When our friend went bed, I got up to leave and he invited me to his room. He was already hard, a little less than average length (5”), but the thinnest dick I’ve ever seen. It felt like I was holding his finger, but something about the size difference turned me on. I think this is when I started fantasizing about fucking guys with tiny dicks.
The last was a childhood friend’s older brother. We caught up after seeing each other at a local gym and decided to work out together occasionally. After our first workout we went to the showers and I took the stall across from him. The wide gap between the wall and glass doors made it hard not to see or be seen, so it was pretty obvious when he started jerking. I couldn’t see the head past his fist, but when he let go, it looked like he was packing maybe 4”. I feel a bit sorry for him because I’ve seen his younger brother naked and he’s almost twice as long.
