Girlfriends Ex Has a "Big Dick"

[Geyser7]

So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!

 

[rope9839]

I've got a lot more experience in being the huge ex.

 

[bar4doug]

So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!

You've been with her for two years. If all she wanted was big(ger) dick, she'd have already found it.

Don't over think it. She chose YOU!

 

[Geyser7]

You've been with her for two years. If all she wanted was big(ger) dick, she'd have already found it.

Don't over think it. She chose YOU!

Thanks man, you have a very good point

 

[alexeddl]

So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!

I hear you dude. While I’m not self conscious about my size and know I’m well above average in dick size, hearing about my fiancee’s ex having a 10 inch cock made me both a little jealous and (probably different from you) in a weird way kinda made me wanna see him fuck her or just like made me wanna see it for myself.

Feels odd admitting that but it’s true

 

[amazzzed2]

I hear you dude. While I’m not self conscious about my size and know I’m well above average in dick size, hearing about my fiancee’s ex having a 10 inch cock made me both a little jealous and (probably different from you) in a weird way kinda made me wanna see him fuck her or just like made me wanna see it for myself.

Feels odd admitting that but it’s true

I relate, except my erect penis is smaller than average.

 

[Evenflow618]

I hear you dude. While I’m not self conscious about my size and know I’m well above average in dick size, hearing about my fiancee’s ex having a 10 inch cock made me both a little jealous and (probably different from you) in a weird way kinda made me wanna see him fuck her or just like made me wanna see it for myself.

Feels odd admitting that but it’s true

No man will ever be 10 inches so take what she said as a lie

 

[Aphradight]

I mean you have a beautiful massive cock. If you makes you feel better, I don’t think you could squeeze that fat giant in my tight ass. Jaw breaker

 

[Sarchee]

Can we see for reference?

 

[Scott8361]

@Geyser7 Geeze... your cock is BIG! I can't understand how you could have any insecurities with that! I don't think she would have made that comment about her ex having a big cock if you didn't also measure up.

With all the positive comments and reactions she has with yours you are absolutely wasting your time by entertaining such thoughts.

I have had to live with the knowledge that I have been smaller than other men my partners have experienced, especially in the girth department. It can be mentally challenging, but looking at your measured comparison videos I can't imagine you would have any doubts your plenty big!!! Probably even uncomfortable for some!

 

[dannyboy971]

So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!

looking at your pics i don't think you have anything to worry about

 

[IrishWank]

My gfs ex had a big dick too. Not only did she mention it once, i seen the buldge for myself. We were all in a wide friendship group so I know him well and I could essily tell he was packing.
But, I know she has fun when we fuck and we've been going for years, so Iv obviously got something she wants.

 

[onetimebigger]

I hear you dude. While I’m not self conscious about my size and know I’m well above average in dick size, hearing about my fiancee’s ex having a 10 inch cock made me both a little jealous and (probably different from you) in a weird way kinda made me wanna see him fuck her or just like made me wanna see it for myself.

Feels odd admitting that but it’s true

Same. Like, almost exactly the same.

My wife admitted to fucking a guy who was roughly 10x6.75 inches - so pretty much as big as they come. I'm huge - I regularly fuck her pumped to 8.5x6.5 inches, which seems to be her favorite size - but damn, I'd love to see her taking him balls deep since she was one of the few women who could.

 

[ChristopherThompson]

Cock size is overrated, and this is a size queen saying that, lol! The most unpleasant experience I've ever had was getting fucked by a prick who had an oversized prick, and the absolute best orgasms I ever had were from being fucked by my ex, who at his hardest and largest was not quite 6" (15.24 cm) long. There is a lot of truth in the old adage, "it's not what you have, but what you do with it."

Now, if he has a big dick and knows how to use it . . . !!!!!

 

[elklindoxxx]

So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!

My partner and I go with other couples, and there are guys who have bigger and some who have smaller dicks.

And there are women who have bigger tits than my partner and those who have smaller tits.

In the end....nobody really cares.

 

[8inchy]

A new girlfriend said 'you have the longest cock' Ive ever had. I immediately noted she didnt say thickest of biggest. I pulled the truth out of her about the thickest.
I bought a pump and havent looked back

 

[MissThing]

Personally, I've only been with a handful of really hung men over the years, and none of them were good sex (one of them is one of my worst experiences), so I tend to avoid very hung men. I can imagine it would be a great experience with a guy who is willing to take his time to properly warm someone up to accomodate his size, but it seems most guys I come across in general only want quick, anonymous hookups. I echo the sentiment that she chose you, and her fulfillment isn't all about a huge dick. In general, men definitely think about cock & size more than women do.