Girlfriends Ex Has a "Big Dick"

[Porto1]

It could be a problem if the size difference is very big, otherwise it's not a big issue.

 

[Lee_M]

She said it was big, not bigger than yours.

Tip- if you're self conscious, don't ask her for clarification. Just let it be.

 

[figgnewton]

You've been with her for two years. If all she wanted was big(ger) dick, she'd have already found it.

Don't over think it. She chose YOU!

Yep. If you are big and know how to use it don't worry. Like bar4doug said she'd find another guy and it's not always about big cock. Personality, caring, kind person someone she can count on and want a long term relationship. Don't fret it.

 

[Joesdog]

No man will ever be 10 inches so take what she said as a lie

That's actually not true. When I lived in Seattle, I had a cuddle buddy (slept together, but no sex) and I woke up one morning and he had morning wood. I am 9" from the tip of my thumb to the tip of my little finger when my hand is stretched out entirely, and the entire head was sticking out beyond that. He was a minimum of 10".

 

[Evenflow618]

That's actually not true. When I lived in Seattle, I had a cuddle buddy (slept together, but no sex) and I woke up one morning and he had morning wood. I am 9" from the tip of my thumb to the tip of my little finger when my hand is stretched out entirely, and the entire head was sticking out beyond that. He was a minimum of 10".

Go collect 10 thousand dollars then, everybody supposedly has seen a 10 inch penis but they can never prove it or collect the easy money

 

[elklindoxxx]

Ever since I was in college I've been going to the JO club in my area. And I've seen many erect penises. The vast majority of men are around 5" long. Over the years, the biggest one that I have seen was probably around 8" long. And that thing was just huge.

There is no such thing as a 10" penis. If it were that long, it would probably be hanging down at least half way down to a guy's knees.

 

[B2TW2021]

Ever since I was in college I've been going to the JO club in my area. And I've seen many erect penises. The vast majority of men are around 5" long. Over the years, the biggest one that I have seen was probably around 8" long. And that thing was just huge.

There is no such thing as a 10" penis. If it were that long, it would probably be hanging down at least half way down to a guy's knees.

The average is supposed to be 5-6 inch. I'm 5.5 inch when I lose the beer belly.
But every one I see looks bigger than mine. It seems like average is 6-6.5 inch. I was the smallest in my friend group.

 

[doreymike]

I know we are all wired differently, but I love hearing about my wife's big dick experiences. And the fact that your gf loves talking about your cock and watching it go in and out would be a huge turn on for me. I'd focus on that -- enjoy her comments and fascination with you dick because not every woman has that!

So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!

 

[borg1125]

Cock size is overrated, and this is a size queen saying that, lol! The most unpleasant experience I've ever had was getting fucked by a prick who had an oversized prick, and the absolute best orgasms I ever had were from being fucked by my ex, who at his hardest and largest was not quite 6" (15.24 cm) long. There is a lot of truth in the old adage, "it's not what you have, but what you do with it."

Now, if he has a big dick and knows how to use it . . . !!!!!

It may be overrated when it comes to sex but it's not overrated when it comes to looking at one. It's like looking at a very good looking guy vs. looking at an average guy. Your eyes gaze longer at the bigger dick and the more attractive guy. The entire modeling industry is built on that lingering gaze. I mean we be fucking all those supermodels but they are sure nice to look at.

 

[borg1125]

Go collect 10 thousand dollars then, everybody supposedly has seen a 10 inch penis but they can never prove it or collect the easy money

I'm sure one is just around the corner. You can't hurry love.

 

[Evenflow618]

I'm sure one is just around the corner. You can't hurry love.

It doesn’t exist. It will requires too much blood flow that the male body can not flow into a penis

 

[borg1125]

It doesn’t exist. It will requires too much blood flow that the male body can not flow into a penis

Au contraire mon amie. Dicks are getting bigger and bigger. And it may be the end of dicks for good. And the band played on.

 

[Evenflow618]

Au contraire mon amie. Dicks are getting bigger and bigger. And it may be the end of dicks for good. And the band played on.

I doubt they are getting bigger. I think more people are being open to get measured. There still hasn’t been a 10 inch penis in fact every woman that has claimed to be with somebody that’s 10 inches always backtracks because they know the money calls their bullshit and exaggerations. Vaginas and penis are symmetrical for every small vagina there is a small penis for every big vagina there is a big penis, for every average size vagina there is average penis.

 

[borg1125]

I doubt they are getting bigger. I think more people are being open to get measured. There still hasn’t been a 10 inch penis in fact every woman that has claimed to be with somebody that’s 10 inches always backtracks because they know the money calls their bullshit and exaggerations. Vaginas and penis are symmetrical for every small vagina there is a small penis for every big vagina there is a big penis, for every average size vagina there is average penis.

It may be me but I'll stick with the more reputable sources than a rando on the internet.

Human Penises Are Getting Bigger At A Fast Rate, But That Might Not Be A Good Thing

 

[Evenflow618]

It may be me but I'll stick with the more reputable sources than a rando on the internet.

Human Penises Are Getting Bigger At A Fast Rate, But That Might Not Be A Good Thing

It don’t matter 10 inch penis doesn’t exist. If penises were getting better then that means vaginas are too so that’s interesting

 

[borg1125]

It don’t matter 10 inch penis doesn’t exist. If penises were getting better then that means vaginas are too so that’s interesting

How? We're not linked with the other sex. Vagina's can expand and contract during sex, after sex, during childbirth, after childbirth.

 

[LilJock]

It may be me but I'll stick with the more reputable sources than a rando on the internet.

Human Penises Are Getting Bigger At A Fast Rate, But That Might Not Be A Good Thing

Summary (edited)

"A study looking at penis sizes from 1942 until 2021 has found that the average erect penis length has increased significantly in the last 30 years, while flaccid penis lengths remained the same. While this may sound like good, or at least neutral, news, the lead researcher says that it could be caused by factors such as chemical exposure interacting with our hormones.

"The meta-analysis looked at penis length studies from the last eight decades, including data from 55,761 males all over the world. Studies were only included if the measurement was carried out by an investigator...

"Erect length increased significantly over time in several regions of the world and across all age groups," the team wrote in the study. "...erect penile length increased 24 percent over the past 29 years". That's an increase from 12.3 centimeters (4.8 inches) to 15.2 centimeters (6 inches) in just under three decades."

The studies were from 1942 until 2021; they found "penis length increased 24 percent over the past 29 years", a 1,2 inch increase from 4.8 inches to 6 inches.

That's pretty significant. The researchers say it could be caused by chemical exposure.*

I wonder if sexual natural selection could also be a contributing cause of this increase in the size of the penis? After all, the growth occurred from the early '90s when the internet first started to make pictures of penises widely available to women, particularly those of unusually large penises, coupled with a proportional decrease in images of average and smaller cocks. Studies have shown that a large percentage of young women in their late teens (over 18 yo) and early twenties search the internet for pictures of nude men, notably of black males. Anecdotal comments on the web suggests many women favor larger penises at the expense of smaller penises, particularly anything below 5 or 6 inches.

Do you think the growing availability of images of larger penises on the internet have contributed to the 24 percent increase in penis size since 1990? That many women have changed their criteria for sexual selection in favor of large penises? Do you think this may favor the continued increase in its size?

At the same time time, do you feel the increase in size, whether caused by female sexual selection or chemicals, will lead to further increase in size by female sexual selection?

* Interestingly, there have been other studies which claimed chemical exposure is causing abnormal development, including smaller male genitalia, in humans and animals.

 

[borg1125]

Summary (edited)

"A study looking at penis sizes from 1942 until 2021 has found that the average erect penis length has increased significantly in the last 30 years, while flaccid penis lengths remained the same. While this may sound like good, or at least neutral, news, the lead researcher says that it could be caused by factors such as chemical exposure interacting with our hormones.

"The meta-analysis looked at penis length studies from the last eight decades, including data from 55,761 males all over the world. Studies were only included if the measurement was carried out by an investigator...

"Erect length increased significantly over time in several regions of the world and across all age groups," the team wrote in the study. "...erect penile length increased 24 percent over the past 29 years". That's an increase from 12.3 centimeters (4.8 inches) to 15.2 centimeters (6 inches) in just under three decades."

The studies were from 1942 until 2021; they found "penis length increased 24 percent over the past 29 years", a 1,2 inch increase from 4.8 inches to 6 inches.

That's pretty significant. The researchers say it could be caused by chemical exposure.*

I wonder if sexual natural selection could also be a contributing cause of this increase in the size of the penis? After all, the growth occurred from the early '90s when the internet first started to make pictures of penises widely available to women, particularly those of unusually large penises, coupled with a proportional decrease in images of average and smaller cocks. Studies have shown that a large percentage of young women in their late teens (over 18 yo) and early twenties search the internet for pictures of nude men, notably of black males. Anecdotal comments on the web suggests many women favor larger penises at the expense of smaller penises, particularly anything below 5 or 6 inches.

Do you think the growing availability of images of larger penises on the internet have contributed to the 24 percent increase in penis size since 1990? That many women have changed their criteria for sexual selection in favor of large penises? Do you think this may favor the continued increase in its size?

At the same time time, do you feel the increase in size, whether caused by female sexual selection or chemicals, will lead to further increase in size by female sexual selection?

* Interestingly, there have been other studies which claimed chemical exposure is causing abnormal development, including smaller male genitalia, in humans and animals.

All good questions. I don't think we know yet. Women have not been allowed to really express themselves and explore their sexuality the way men have.

If a woman says she likes a big dick so many men become angry/enraged and say well her vagina is too big.