Girlfriends Ex Has a "Big Dick"

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So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!
 
So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!
You've been with her for two years. If all she wanted was big(ger) dick, she'd have already found it.

Don't over think it. She chose YOU!
 
So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!
I hear you dude. While I’m not self conscious about my size and know I’m well above average in dick size, hearing about my fiancee’s ex having a 10 inch cock made me both a little jealous and (probably different from you) in a weird way kinda made me wanna see him fuck her or just like made me wanna see it for myself.

Feels odd admitting that but it’s true
 
I hear you dude. While I’m not self conscious about my size and know I’m well above average in dick size, hearing about my fiancee’s ex having a 10 inch cock made me both a little jealous and (probably different from you) in a weird way kinda made me wanna see him fuck her or just like made me wanna see it for myself.

Feels odd admitting that but it’s true
I relate, except my erect penis is smaller than average.
 
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I hear you dude. While I’m not self conscious about my size and know I’m well above average in dick size, hearing about my fiancee’s ex having a 10 inch cock made me both a little jealous and (probably different from you) in a weird way kinda made me wanna see him fuck her or just like made me wanna see it for myself.

Feels odd admitting that but it’s true
No man will ever be 10 inches so take what she said as a lie
 
@Geyser7 Geeze... your cock is BIG! I can't understand how you could have any insecurities with that! I don't think she would have made that comment about her ex having a big cock if you didn't also measure up.

With all the positive comments and reactions she has with yours you are absolutely wasting your time by entertaining such thoughts.

I have had to live with the knowledge that I have been smaller than other men my partners have experienced, especially in the girth department. It can be mentally challenging, but looking at your measured comparison videos I can't imagine you would have any doubts your plenty big!!! Probably even uncomfortable for some!
 
So I was out with my girlfriend of two years this past weekend and we had a few drinks and got on the subject of one of her ex boyfriends. She said he was a real loser and used to cheat on her a lot and have sex with tons of women. I asked what his appeal was and she said "he was hot and has a big dick". I immediately became self conscious and wondered if he was much bigger than me. She could tell by my reaction that I was self conscious and said "you have a big dick too" but I couldn't help but think she was only saying that to make me feel better.

During the time that we have been together she has made comments like "it's too big to fit in my mouth" and "when it's swollen I can't get my hand around it". I've also noticed that she likes watching it go in and out of her when we have sex. Despite all of this I still feel somewhat inadequate or self conscious about not measuring up to her ex.

Anyone else have a similar experience or have any advice to help me cope with my stupid insecurities? Thanks!
looking at your pics i don't think you have anything to worry about
 
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My gfs ex had a big dick too. Not only did she mention it once, i seen the buldge for myself. We were all in a wide friendship group so I know him well and I could essily tell he was packing.
But, I know she has fun when we fuck and we've been going for years, so Iv obviously got something she wants.
 
I hear you dude. While I’m not self conscious about my size and know I’m well above average in dick size, hearing about my fiancee’s ex having a 10 inch cock made me both a little jealous and (probably different from you) in a weird way kinda made me wanna see him fuck her or just like made me wanna see it for myself.

Feels odd admitting that but it’s true
Same. Like, almost exactly the same.

My wife admitted to fucking a guy who was roughly 10x6.75 inches - so pretty much as big as they come. I'm huge - I regularly fuck her pumped to 8.5x6.5 inches, which seems to be her favorite size - but damn, I'd love to see her taking him balls deep since she was one of the few women who could.