Indirectly called small by a friend

Lynx · May 18, 2022

A friend's ex-boyfriend (with whom I also became friends) posted a pic on FB wearing gray sweatpants that (I think on purpose) showed his cock outline. I decided to send him a joking PM asking if he was going to keep the pic up. He, of course, asked why, was it in bad taste, and I said no but I just thought it was a joke. Then he says "you don't think Jennifer liked me for my personality did you?" So I replied I was just thinking she was very lucky and at least we can now laugh about it. He then continues "its a gift and a curse my friend" and I said "You're assuming I don't know that??" He then replies "Your reaction tells me all I need to know....trust me. Just saying". Well I was kind of like how dare you assume I'm not as big as you. I guess thats BDE haha

Stephenmass · May 18, 2022

I would have thought nothing about what he said or did. I think you take it too far tbh. You look too deep into what was said IMO. Nothing wrong with you guy!

Lynx · May 18, 2022

Stephenmass said:
I would have thought nothing about what he said or did. I think you take it too far tbh. You look too deep into what was said IMO. Nothing wrong with you guy!

OK, thanks! That's what I'm looking for is others' opinions and different point of views

Matt_Sterbator · May 18, 2022

The only way to truly know is to whip them out side by side

deleted16781121 · May 21, 2022

I wouldn't read into it. Confidence is everything and by now people who are worth their time know that size means nothing. I think if you focus too much on it it can ruin your self-esteem.

Lynx · May 22, 2022

Matt_Sterbator said:
The only way to truly know is to whip them out side by side

Haha! Too bad we live so far apart lol

Lynx · May 22, 2022

Peacheach said:
I wouldn't read into it. Confidence is everything and by now people who are worth their time know that size means nothing. I think if you focus too much on it it can ruin your self-esteem.

Agreed, cool point of view!

deleted355382 · May 27, 2022

Ps why haven't you showed us a cropped version of the photo?

RyanMars · May 30, 2022

Lynx said:
A friend's ex-boyfriend (with whom I also became friends) posted a pic on FB wearing gray sweatpants that (I think on purpose) showed his cock outline. I decided to send him a joking PM asking if he was going to keep the pic up. He, of course, asked why, was it in bad taste, and I said no but I just thought it was a joke. Then he says "you don't think Jennifer liked me for my personality did you?" So I replied I was just thinking she was very lucky and at least we can now laugh about it. He then continues "its a gift and a curse my friend" and I said "You're assuming I don't know that??" He then replies "Your reaction tells me all I need to know....trust me. Just saying". Well I was kind of like how dare you assume I'm not as big as you. I guess thats BDE haha

I think you were in the wrong for even sending him a PM asking if he was going to take it down. It was not a nice joke and not needed. Also not everyone is in the mood for jokes all the time.

Also in both instances it’s your insecurity that made you over react.
First one in sending PM and 2nd one in assuming he thought you were small which I didn’t get fro his response. It seemed like a general response. Insecurity will have you thinking everyone is thinking about you all the time.

You could’ve emailed him a nice hot joke instead and said damn its grey pant season I see. Even if he posted his pic on purpose for thirst trap, it’s none of your business.

Try not to be that negative toxic friend ppl avoid.

Lynx · May 30, 2022

JamesG08 said:
Ps why haven't you showed us a cropped version of the photo?

Im worried he might be here & see it LOL

Lynx · May 30, 2022

RyanMars said:
I think you were in the wrong for even sending him a PM asking if he was going to take it down. It was not a nice joke and not needed. Also not everyone is in the mood for jokes all the time.

Also in both instances it’s your insecurity that made you over react.
First one in sending PM and 2nd one in assuming he thought you were small which I didn’t get fro his response. It seemed like a general response. Insecurity will have you thinking everyone is thinking about you all the time.

You could’ve emailed him a nice hot joke instead and said damn its grey pant season I see. Even if he posted his pic on purpose for thirst trap, it’s none of your business.

Try not to be that negative toxic friend ppl avoid.

I appreciate your taking the time to reply and even though I disagree fully with every word, reading different viewpoints is why we are all here.

RyanMars · May 30, 2022

Lynx said:
I appreciate your taking the time to reply and even though I disagree fully with every word, reading different viewpoints is why we are all here.

I gave you an unbiased view as someone who doesn’t know both of you and this is what I see. I thinks it’s weird to ask some if they will take a pic down after they posted it. It was like you were looking for confrontation and then when he was polite and didn’t give it to you, you made an issue about dick size lol

Lynx · May 30, 2022

RyanMars said:
I gave you an unbiased view as someone who doesn’t know both of you and this is what I see. I thinks it’s weird to ask some if they will take a pic down after they posted it. It was like you were looking for confrontation and then when he was polite and didn’t give it to you, you made an issue about dick size lol

Yep, I read & remember what you wrote. It wasn't that long ago lol

deleted10109811 · May 30, 2022

Lynx said:
Im worried he might be here & see it LOL

PM it lol

notthatguy · May 30, 2022

A former friend of mine once made a comment about my average sized dick...

I just smiled and took the abuse... within two days I had his girlfriend wailing like a siren and she dumped him for not being able to make her cum.

Karma is a bitch...

Lynx · May 30, 2022

notthatguy said:
A former friend of mine once made a comment about my average sized dick...

I just smiled and took the abuse... within two days I had his girlfriend wailing like a siren and she dumped him for not being able to make her cum.

Karma is a bitch...

Good job! lol

notthatguy · Jun 4, 2022

Lynx said:
Good job! lol

Thanks.

To be honest I sort have kept a grudge.... I went after several of his girlfriends over the years just for sport.

Theaterguy82 · Jun 7, 2022

erikbass said:
PM it lol

So? How will he know it’s you? And that would be the perfect way to prove you aren’t small

ndamood4sum · Jun 30, 2022

The real question is why did it bother you that he posted it? Do you think he is larger than you? You said, "I decided to send him a joking PM asking if he was going to keep the pic up." Where was the joke? What's wrong with him doing it on purpose if that's what he did? I guess I do not understand your reasoning for asking him about it in the first place.

RyanMars · Jun 30, 2022

ndamood4sum said:
The real question is why did it bother you that he posted it? Do you think he is larger than you? You said, "I decided to send him a joking PM asking if he was going to keep the pic up." Where was the joke? What's wrong with him doing it on purpose if that's what he did? I guess I do not understand your reasoning for asking him about it in the first place.

Exactly. I found it strange too. Like why even respond. His PM did not read as a joke.

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